Just Stuff!

I WON!!!

2010-03-03T16:18:00.002-06:00

This sumptuous pink velvet fabric from Eddie Ross, (http://www.eddieross.com/)

3 yards to be exact. I am going to make beautiful, luxurious throw pillows for my daughters bed. Got to put my thinkin' cap on.

Can't wait to get it and get started!

Thanks Eddie and Jaithan, you made my day.

Melinda

Wonderful Holiday (or anytime)Appetizer

2009-11-20T09:25:00.002-06:00

HARVARTI CHEESE WITH CARAMEL SAUCE

1 # or larger Block of Havarti Cheese
Cut in small squares like a Blooming Onion

CARAMEL SAUCE
1 1/2 Cups Brown Sugar
1/4 to 1/2 Cup Half and Half
1 1/2 Tablespoons Jack Daniels
1 Tablespoons White Corn Syrup
1 Cup Walnut Pieces (Chopped)

Cook over low heat. Stir until it reaches a boil, let sit at room temperature until it thickens. Pour over cheese 30 minutes before serving.

Serve with Water Crackers or Ginger Snaps

Wonderful, fabulous, delicious!

Sauce would be wonderful served warm over ice cream. Yum!

My family was eating the leftover sauce out of the saucepan with spoons when I left home with this.

I will be doing Thanksgiving with my family this Sunday as I am traveling to No Georgia on Thanksgiving day to visit DH side of the family.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Melinda

Unique Gift Idea!

2009-11-04T14:44:00.003-06:00

These would make the coolest Christmas, Birthday or wedding gift. These are made from actual photos of items taken around the world, then the artist uses them to create a name or saying.

Visit the artist at www.allisonsletters.com to create your own unique picture!

Melinda

Fabulous Fall Dessert

2009-10-05T15:17:00.003-05:00

I don't know about you, but sometimes I like to try something new. This is an absolutely wonderful, delicious, fabulous fall dessert. I'm not kidding, this stuff is great. Try it out on your family!

Carrot Cake Cheesecake

Cheesecake

16 ounces cream cheese (at room temp)
3/4 cup granulated sugar
1 tablespoon flour
3 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla

CARROT CAKE

3/4 cup vegetable oil
1 cup granulated sugar
2 eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 cup flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1 dash salt
1 (8 1/2 ounce) can crushed pineapple, well drained with juice reserved
1 cup grated carrot
1/2 cup flaked coconut
1/2 cup chopped walnuts

PINEAPPLE CREAM CHEESE FROSTING
2 ounces cream cheese, softened
1 tablespoon butter, softened
1 3/4 cups powdered sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
1 tablespoon reserved pineapple juice

Make cheesecake,
In large bowl of electric mixer, beat together 2 pkgs cream cheese and 3/4 cup sugar until smooth.
Beat in 1 tablespoon flour, 3 eggs and 2 teaspoons vanilla until smooth.
Set aside.

Meanwhile prepare Carrot Cake:
In large bowl, combine oil, 1 cup sugar, 2 eggs and 1 teaspoon vanilla, blending thoroughly.
Stir in 1 cup flour, baking soda, cinnamon and dash salt, mixing well.
Stir in drained pineapple, carrots, coconut and walnuts.

Spread 1 1/2 cups carrot cake batter over bottom of greased 9-or 9 1/2-inch springform pan.
Drop large spoonfuls of cream cheese batter over carrot cake batter; top with large spoonfuls of remaining carrot cake batter.
Repeat with remaining cream cheese batter, spreading evenly with a knife.
Do not marble with a knife.

Bake in preheated 350 degree oven 50 to 65 minutes or until cake is set and cooked through.
Cool to room temperature, then refrigerate.

When cake is cold, prepare Pineapple Cream Cheese Frosting.
In a bowl of electric mixer, combine 2 oz cream cheese, butter, powdered sugar, 1/2 teaspoon vanilla, 1 tablespoon reserved pineapple juice and dash of salt.
Beat until smooth and of spreading consistency.
Frost top of cheesecake.
Refrigerate 3 to 4 hours before serving

Final step, prepare for applause and cudos!!!!! That is if you decide to share it!

Enjoy!

Melinda

Another cute Halloween Food Idea!

2009-09-30T15:13:00.004-05:00

Halloween Hats – Witches Hats

32 Hershey's® Kisses® milk chocolates, unwrapped

1 package (11 1/2 ounces) fudge-striped shortbread cookies (32)

1 tube (4.25 ounces) orange or red decorating icing

Attach 1 chocolate candy to chocolate bottom of each cookie, using decorating icing.Pipe decorating icing around base of milk chocolate candy.

So Cute! (photo upper left hand corner)

Fun Halloween Treat!!!

2009-09-30T10:18:00.002-05:00

I've been finding the cutest Halloween food items this year. For the next few days I'll be posting a couple of them. First up, Witches Hat!!

Witches Hat

2 ounces semisweet chocolate
Chocolate-rolled sugar ice cream cone
Candy pumpkins
Waxed paper
Purchased unfrosted plain or chocolate cake doughnut
Canned chocolate icing
Nonpareils or sprinkles
Orange, yellow, and green Starburst candy or candy-coated gum (we used mini Chiclets)
Directions
1. Melt semisweet chocolate according to the package instructions. Holding the open end of the cone, dip the bottom half at an angle into the melted chocolate. Immediately press candy pumpkins into the chocolate. Place the cone on waxed paper and let sit until the chocolate sets.
2. Frost the top and side surfaces of a doughnut with icing. Sprinkle icing with nonpareils or sprinkles. Center the open end of the cone on the frosted doughnut. Use a sharp knife to cut candies or gum pieces into quarters and adhere them around the bottom of the hat with icing.

Wouldn't this make a cute class party favor for your kids?????

Melinda

September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month

2009-09-01T13:22:00.005-05:00

www.ovariancancerawareness.org

I lost my Mom to this disease and now have a friend who was just recently diagnosed, she started her chemo on Monday.

Please remind your friends to visit the ob/gyn annually, and to know the systems. bloating, constipation, frequent urgent urination, fatigue and back pain. Visit the Ovarian Cancer Awareness website for more info.

Thanks!

Melinda

15 Ways to Charm a Southern Belle

2009-07-10T15:10:00.002-05:00

Being raised in the south used to come with "standards". Young men were taught how to be Gentleman, and I'm afraid that is falling by the wayside. It's never too soon to start teaching boys how to be gentlemen.

There's an article in this months Southern Living Magazine that tell is like it is, it's by Amy Bickers and it's titled "15 Ways to Charm Her". Here's the list.

#1 Stand up for a lady: Actually this doesn't just involve chairs!
#2 Know that the SEC has the best football teams in the nation
#3 Kill Bugs: Paraphrasing Suzanne Sugarbaker "Men use Women's Lib as an excuse not
kill bugs for you.
#4 Hold doors open: Ladies go thru first!
#5 Fix things or Build Stuff:
#6 Wear Boots Occasionally: Not the fancy ones, we're talking about mud-crusted,
I could have just come in from the field boots.
#7 TAKE OFF YOUR HAT INSIDE!!!!
#8 Grill Stuff
#9 Call us: If you want to ask us out, don't text & don't email, pick up the phone and call us.
#10 Stand when we come back to the table: Just a little half stand is enough to make a
girl melt.
#11 Pull out our chairs: Wait, that's not all, scoot them back in before we hit the floor.
#12 Pay the tab on the first few dates: If you ask me out, you pay, if I ask you out, you pay.
#13 Don't show up in a wrinkled, untucked shirt: Care about your appearance, but don't
look like you spend more time in front of the mirror than we do.
#14 Never get in bar fights: You don't look tough, you look like an idiot.
#15 Know how to mix our favorite cocktail, just the way we like it.

Guaranteed to make a Southern Belle swoon!

Melinda

2009-06-24T16:33:00.000-05:00

Enough said!

Melinda

GOOD TO KNOW!

2009-06-03T08:57:00.003-05:00

You can make your own custom color chalkboard paint by following these instructions from Lowes Creative Ideas magazine.

To make custom-colored chalkboard paint, pour 1 cup of satin latex paint into a container. Then add 2 tablespoons of white unsanded tile grout. Using a paint stick, mix thoroughly. If the mixture becomes too thick to brush on, add a tablespoon of water, and mix again.

I love this idea of writing on flowers pots, this would be really cute for herbs.

Melinda

Woodlawn United Methodist Church

2009-05-31T21:01:00.005-05:00

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This is the church I was raised in, accepted Christ and was Baptized in, and got married in over 30 years ago.

Today it burned to the ground.

Built in 1912, it was a gorgeous structure, the interior was as beautiful as the outside, it had a fabulous antique pipe organ, and now it's all gone.

I didn't realize what this church meant to me until I saw it go up in flames. I have shed many tears this afternoon, as I remember how special this church was to me.

Please remember this church family in your prayers.

As the pastor, Larry Horn, stated today on the news, "today is Pentecoste, the birthdate of the church, today Woodlawn United Methodist Church, was born again."

Melinda

Happy Mothers Day!

2009-05-08T08:45:00.001-05:00

As we approach Mothers Day weekend, I again feel the loss of my Mom as if it happened yesterday. I find myself missing buying a present, planning a nice dinner for her and making her feel special, I only hope I did that to my best ability while she was still with me.

This Sunday I will take her flowers to her grave and tell her how much I love her and how I had not idea how much I would miss her, but I will also tell her how fortunate I was to have a Mom like her. Thanks to her I had a wonderful childhood, and as an adult, she became my best friend. I now realize the sacrifices that she made for us in order to give us the best.

So this Mother's day if you're lucky enough to still have your Mom, give her an extra hug, tell her how much you love her because one day you won't be able to.

Happy Mother Day Mom, I love you!

(In loving memory of my Mom, Dorothy M Hodgens)

Melinda

Tuesday Morning Deal!

2009-04-27T21:08:00.005-05:00

Look at this terrific two tiered basket that I got at Tuesday Morning for $9.99, including the liners!

I plan to give this as first prize at Bunco next week, which I am hosting, that is, unless I just can't part with it after a week.

It's got a yellow Gerber daisy, pink begonias, peach verbena, hot pink Wave petunias, verigated monkey grass and a couple of different kinds of vines, one has white flowers and the other will have blue flowers on it.

I plant to add a few dangling sparkly stones to finish it off and I think it will be a fabulous grand prize for about $25.00. I know I would love to win it. I may have a problem parting with itwhen Bunco gets here in a week.

Tell me what you think, would you like this as a prize or should I rethink it?

I've shopped Tuesday Morning a couple of times lately, and have loved what I've found.

Check it out!

Melinda

Girl Trip!

2009-04-21T08:42:00.002-05:00

I'm doing something next weekend that I have not done since I got married 30 years ago, I'm going to the beach with 6 of my high school girlfriends. GIRLS RULE!

Lucky me, one of my best friends moved from Birmingham to Gulf Shores several years ago and built a house with guest quarters, so she could have friends visit.

We are currently planning our 35 year reunion High School reunion for June and we are having a "committee" meeting, (that's what we're calling it), at the beach! My family is not sure what this means, they think I'm revolting, they're worried (good). Never mind that every year my husband goes on a boys only fishing trip, my daughter goes several times a year with her friends, but let Mom say she's going to do this, well, it's UNUSUAL. I haven't been to the beach in six years and nothing is going to stand in my way this year.

I guess they think we're going to sow a few wild oats, (hey, I still have a few, somewhere), or should I say we'll do what 52 year old women at the beach do. I'm sure we'll have a couple of late nights, sit on the beach and do a lot of gossiping (I mean planning) and enjoy a few frozen drinks as we discuss the reunion details.

WHOO HOO!!!!! Look out Gulf Shores, six fabulous wild woman are headed your way!

Melinda

Easter Dessert!

2009-04-09T11:18:00.002-05:00

I've been searching high and low for something "new" for Easter Sunday, and I think this might be it. There is a very popular catering company in Birmingham, called Ashley Macs, and this is their recipe.

Ashley Mac's Coconut-Caramel Pie(yields 2 deep-dish pies)

1/4 cup butter1 (8 ounce) package flaked coconut
1 cup chopped pecan halves8 ounces cream cheese
1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk
16 ounces frozen whipped topping, thawed
2 deep dish (9-inch) pie shells, baked
1 (12 ounce) jar caramel topping

Melt butter in a large skillet. Add coconut and pecans. Cook until brown and set aside. Combine cream cheese and sweetened condensed milk in a mixing bowl. Beat with mixer until smooth. Fold in whipped topping. Layer ¼ cream cheese mixture in each pie shell. Drizzle caramel topping (about half the jar) on top of cream cheese mixture in both pies. Sprinkle half coconut mixture on top. Repeat the layer, beginning with the cream-cheese mixture.

Freeze. Serve frozen.

I love anything that is eaten frozen. Sounds yummy doesn't it?

Happy Easter!

Melinda

Love it!

2009-04-02T08:40:00.003-05:00

A woman was sitting at a bar enjoying an after work cocktail with her girlfriends when Steven, a tall, exceptionally handsome, extremely sexy, middle-aged man entered. He was so striking that the woman could not take her eyes off him. The young-at-heart man noticed her overly attentive stare and walked directly toward her.. (As All men will.)

Before she could offer her apologies for staring so rudely, he leaned over and whispered to her, 'I'll do anything, absolutely anything, that you want me to do, no matter how kinky, for $20.00... On one condition' Flabbergasted, the woman asked what the condition was. The man replied, 'You have to tell me what you want me to do in just three words.'

The woman considered his proposition for a moment, And then slowly removed a $20 bill from her purse, which she pressed into the man's hand along with her address. She looked deeply into his eyes, and slowly and meaningfully said....

'Clean my house'

Wow, imagine getting your house cleaned for just $20.00!
(OMGosh, I now know exactly how old I am!)

Raising the porch swing to new heights!

2009-03-26T11:13:00.004-05:00

Close you eyes, feel the gentle back and forth swaying, relax and rewind, ceiling fan blowing above your head, the sound of crickets in the background, as you take a nap on this SWINGING PORCH BED! OMGosh, I've got to have one! Somebody find me a carpenter, quick.

Directions are here http://www.lowescreativeideas.com/idea-library/projects/Hanging_Bed_in_Sunroom_0508.aspx.

Melinda

Another Who Knew Moment!

2009-03-20T11:17:00.002-05:00

Did you know that by savings your coffee grinds and tea bags, and using them as mulch around hydrangeas, it will change the ph of the soil, and make your pink blooms turn blue.

Wow!

It's amazing what you learn from reading isn't it.

Melinda

Who knew!!!!

2009-03-19T14:43:00.002-05:00

'Water Displacement #40' or WD40, as we like to call it.

The product began from a search for a rust preventative solvent and degreaser to protect missile parts. WD-40 was created in 1953 by three technicians at the San Diego Rocket Chemical Company. Its name comes fr om the project that was to find a 'water displacement' compound.. They were successful with the fortieth formulation, thus WD-40. The Convair Company bought it in bulk to protect their atlas missile parts. Ken East (one of the original founders) says there is nothing in WD-40 that would hurt you.. When you read the 'shower door' part, try it. It's the first thing that has ever cleaned that spotty shower door.. If yours is plastic, it works just as well as glass. It's a miracle! Then try it on your stove top ... Viola! It's now shinier than it's ever been. You'll be amazed.

Here are some other uses:
1. Protects silver from tarnishing. 2. Removes road tar and grime from cars. 3. Cleans and lubricates guitar strings. 4. Gives floors that 'just-waxed' sheen without making them slippery. 5.. Keeps flies off cows. 6. Restores and cleans chalkboards. 7. Removes lipstick stains. 8. 20 Loosens stubborn zippers. 9. Untangles jewelry chains. 10. Removes stains from stainless steel sinks. 11. Removes dirt and grime from the barbecue grill. 12. Keeps ceramic/terra cotta garden pots from oxidizing. 13. Removes tomato stains from clothing. 14. Keeps glass shower doors free of water spots. 15. Camouflages scratches in ceramic and marble floors. 16. Keeps scissors working smoothly. 17. Lubricates noisy door hinges on vehicles and doors in homes. 18. It removes black scuff marks from the kitchen floor! Use WD-40 for those nasty tar and scuff marks on flooring. It doesn't seem to harm the finish and you won't have to scrub nearly as hard to get them off. Just remember to open some windows if you have a lot of marks. 19. Bug guts will eat away the finish on your car if not removed quickly! Use WD-40! 20. Gives a children's playground gym slide a shine for a super fast slide. 21. Lubricates gear shift and mower deck lever for ease of handling on riding mowers. 22. Rids kids rocking chairs and swings of squeaky no ises. 23. Lubricates tracks in sticking home windows and makes them easier to open. 24. Spraying an umbrella stem makes it easier to open and close. 25. Restores and cleans padded leather dashboards in vehicles, as well as vinyl bumpers. 26. Restores and cleans roof racks on vehicles. 27. Lubricates and stops squeaks in electric fans. 28. Lubricates wheel sprockets on tricycles, wagons, and bicycles for easy handling. 29. Lubricates fan belts on washers and dryers and keeps them running smoothly. 30. Keeps rust from forming on saws and saw blades, and other tools. 31. Removes splattered grease on stove. 32. Keeps bathroom mirror from fogging. 33. Lubricates prosthetic limbs. 34. Keeps pigeons off the balcony (they hate the smell). 35. Removes all traces of duct tape.. 36. Folks even spray it on their arms, hands, and knees to relieve arthritis pain. 37. Florida 's favorite use is: 'cleans and removes love bugs from grills and bumpers.' 38. The favorite use in the state of New York , WD-40 protects the Statue of Liberty from the elements. 39.. =2 0 WD-40 attracts fish. Spray a little on live bait or lures and you will be catching the big one in no time. Also, it's a lot cheaper than the chemical attractants that are made for just that purpose. Keep in mind though, using some chemical laced baits or lures for fishing are not allowed in some states. 40. Use it for fire ant bites. It takes the sting away immediately and stops the itch. 41. WD-40 is great for removing crayon from walls. Spray on the mark and wipe with a clean rag. 42. Also, if you've discovered that your teenage daughter has washed and dried a tube of lipstick with a load of laundry, saturate the lipstick spots with WD-40 and rewash. Presto! The lipstick is gone! 43. If you sprayed WD-40 on the distributor cap, it would displace the moisture and allow the car to start.

Bet you didn't know this!
The basic ingredient is FISH OIL.

I've tried everything else on my old stiff knees, might as well give this a try.

Smiles,

Melinda

Happy St. Patty's Day!

2009-03-17T08:22:00.003-05:00

May there always be work for your hands to do...

May there always be work for your hands to do

May your purse always hold a coin or two;

May the sun always shine on your windowpane;

May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain;

May the hand of a friend always be near you;

May God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you.

Melinda

Lemon Tea Cakes!

2009-03-16T11:15:00.002-05:00

My Mom used to make a little cookie she called a Tea Cake. Very easy to make, just flour, butter and sugar. When I saw this recipe on Crisco's site, http://www.bhg.com/recipes/collections/crisco/ I had to try it and they were fabulous.

3 1/4 cups All Purpose Flour
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup butter or margarine, softened
3/4 cup granulated sugar
3/4 cup powdered sugar
1/2 cup Crisco® Pure Vegetable Oil
2 large eggs
2 teaspoons grated lemon peel
2 teaspoons lemon extract
Granulated sugar

Directions
MIX flour, baking powder and salt in small mixing bowl. Cream butter, granulated sugar and powdered sugar in large mixing bowl. Blend in oil, eggs, lemon peel and lemon extract. Stir in flour mixture. Cover and refrigerate for 2 hours.

HEAT oven to 350°F. Shape dough into 1-inch balls Place 2 to 3 inches apart on ungreased baking sheet. Flatten to 1/8-inch thickness with bottom of glass dipped in granulated sugar.

BAKE for 10 to 12 minutes, or until edges are light golden brown. Remove cookies from pan immediately. Cool on wire rack.

VARIATION
LEMON CRISPS: Follow recipe above, except shape dough into 3/4-inch balls and flatten to 1/16-inch thickness with sugar-dipped glass. Bake 7 to 9 minutes, or until edges are light golden brown.

Of course, I'm a lemon freak, love, love, love any lemon flavored and these did not disappoint. These are a fabulous spring cookie. You could add a few drops of pastel food coloring and these would be wonderful for Easter!

Enjoy!

Melinda

Thought for the day!

2009-03-16T10:55:00.001-05:00

We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~ Japanese Proverb

Jesus Loves Me!

2009-03-12T11:15:00.002-05:00

This has always been a favorite childrens song, but someone sent me an updated version for us older folks,

JESUS LOVES ME>>>>

Jesus loves me,this I know,>>
Though my hair is white as snow>>
Though my sight is growing dim,>>
Still He bids me trust in Him.>>

(CHORUS)>> YES,JESUS LOVES ME.. YES, JESUS LOVES ME..>> YES, JESUS LOVES ME FOR THE BIBLE TELLS ME SO.>>

Though my steps are oh, so slow,>>
With my hand in His I'll go>>
On through life,let come what may,>>
He'll be there to lead the way.>>

(CHORUS)>>

When the nights are dark and long,>>
In my heart He puts a song.>>
Telling me in words so clear,>>
'Have no fear for I am near.'>>

(CHORUS)>>
When my work on earth is done,>>
And life's victories have been won.>>
He will take me home above,>>
Then I'll understand His love>>

(CHORUS)>>
I love Jesus, does He know?>>
Have I ever told Him so?>>
Jesus loves to hear me say,>>
That I love Him every day.>

Take a moment and sing this. It'll lift you're spirits.

Melinda

Much needed words of wisdom!

2009-03-11T15:57:00.002-05:00

I don't know about you, but turning on the news depresses me to no end. However, today while reading the comments on someone's blog (don't remember which one, I am at that age when you memory starts going) I read these words that gave me some perspective.

"God is still in control, no matter who's in Washington!"

Doesn't that just say it all!

Amen!

Melinda

Finished at last!

2009-03-06T22:50:00.004-06:00

The contractor has packed up his tools and vacated the premises. I love my new kitchen, it turned out just as I had planned. My husband made the Welsh Dresser for me when we were first married 30 years ago.

There is still some fluffing and adjusting for me to do. I have to do something with the windows, but I think it turned out pretty good. I had a budget of $10,000 and I managed to stay in it.

That includes the granite and all new appliances, hardwood floors, new light fixtures, plus 7 recessed lights , removing the bar and making an island, and moving 3/4 of the wall between the kitchen and den.

So here's proof that you can make a big change without big bucks.

Melinda

Ps, the $10,000 doesn't include the new table and chairs I've got my eye on. Just don't tell my husband.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LINDSAY!

2009-03-06T22:39:00.002-06:00

My baby turned 20 on March 1st. I cannot believe it.

She is a lovely young woman and I am very proud of her.

Time really flies!

Melinda

Announcing the Death of Common Sense

2009-03-02T08:47:00.002-06:00

My parents told me about Mr. Common Sense early in my life and told me I would do well to call on him when making decisions. It seems he was always around in my early years but less and less as time passed by. Today I read his obituary. Please join me in a moment of silence in remembrance, for Common Sense had served us all so well for so many generations.

ObituaryCommon Sense Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as knowing when to come in out of the rain, why the early bird gets the worm, life isn't always fair, and maybe it was my fault.Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don't spend more than you earn) and reliable parenting strategies (adults, not children are in charge).

His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place. Reports of a six-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a classmate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job they themselves failed to do in disciplining their unruly children. It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer Aspirin, sun lotion or a Bandaid to a student, but could not inform the parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.

Common Sense lost the will to live as the Ten Commandments became part of a state requirement in public places; churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims. Common Sense took a beating when you couldn't defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar can sue you for assault..Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realize that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.

Common Sense was preceded in death by his parents, Truth and Trust; his wife, Discretion; his daughter, Responsibility; and his son, Reason. He is survived by three stepbrothers; I Know my Rights, Someone Else is to Blame, and I'm a Victim..

Not many attended his funeral because so few realized he was gone.

Melinda

More kitchen pictures

2009-02-24T21:51:00.005-06:00

Melinda

KITCHEN, BEFORE AND AFTER

2009-02-24T21:26:00.009-06:00

Kitchen before:

I was beginning to think this day would never come, but we're finally finished, and it was WORTH IT!! This is the after picture. So what do you think?

Melinda

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!

2009-02-12T15:21:00.001-06:00

Melinda

Don't Leave it on the desk!

2009-02-11T10:46:00.002-06:00

This is kind of wordy, but I think it's worth the read.

DON'T LEAVE IT ON THE DESK
There was a certain Professor of Religion named Dr.Christensen, a studious man who taught at a small college in the western United States . Dr. Christensen taught the required survey course in Christianity at this particular Institution. Every student was required to take this course his freshman year, regardless of his or her major.Although Dr. Christensen tried hard to communicate the essence of the gospel in his class, he found that most of his students looked upon the course as nothing but required drudgery. Despite his best efforts, most students refused to take Christianity seriously.

This year, Dr. Christensen had a special student named Steve. Steve was only a freshman, but was studying with the intent of going onto seminary for the ministry. Steve was popular, he was well liked, and he was an imposing physical specimen. He was now the starting center on the school football team, and was the best student in the professor's class. One day, Dr. Christensen asked Steve to stay after class so he could talk with him. 'How many push-ups can you do?' Steve said, 'I do about 200 every night.' 200? That's pretty good, Steve,' Dr. Christensen said. 'Do you think you could do 300?' Steve replied, 'I don't know.... I've never done 300 at a time.' 'Do you think you could?' again asked Dr. Christensen. 'Well, I can try,' said Steve. 'Can you do 300 in sets of 10? I have a class project in mind and I need you to do about 300 push-ups in sets of ten for this to work. Can you do it? I need you to tell me you can do it,' said the professor. Steve said, 'Well... I think I can...yeah, I can do it.' Dr. Christensen said, 'Good! I need you to do this on Friday. Let me explain what I have in mind.'

Friday came and Steve got to class early and sat in the front of the room. When class started, the professor pulled out a big box of donuts. No, these weren't the normal kinds of donuts, they were the BIG, extra fancy kind, with cream centers and frosting swirls. Everyone was pretty excited it was Friday, the last class of the year, and they were going to get an early start on the weekend with a party in Dr. Christensen's class.

Dr. Christensen went to the first girl in the first row and asked, 'Cynthia, do you want to have one of these donuts?' Cynthia said, 'Yes.' Dr. Christensen then turned to Steve and asked, 'Steve, would you do ten push-ups so that Cynthia can have a donut?' 'Sure.' Steve jumped down from his desk to do a quick ten. Then Steve again sat in his desk. Dr. Christensen put a donut on Cynthia's desk.

Dr. Christensen then went to Joe, the next person, and asked, 'Joe, do you want a donut?' Joe said, 'Yes.' Dr. Christensen asked, 'Steve would you do ten push-ups so Joe can have a donut?' Steve did ten push-ups! , Joe got a donut.
And so it went, down the first aisle, Steve did ten push-ups for every person before they got their donut. Walking down the second aisle, Dr. Christensen came to Scott. Scott was on the basketball team, and in as good condition as Steve. He was very popular and never lacking for female companionship. When the professor asked, 'Scott do you want a donut?' Scott's reply was, 'Well, can I do my own push-ups?' Dr. Christensen said, 'No, Steve has to do them.' Then Scott said, 'Well, I don't want one then.' Dr. Christensen shrugged and then turned to Steve and asked, 'Steve, would you do ten push-ups so Scott can have a donut he doesn't want?' With perfect obedience Steve started to do ten push-ups. Scott said, 'H EY! I said I didn't want one!' Dr. Christensen said, 'Look! this is my classroom, my class, my desks, and these are my donuts. Just leave it on the desk if you don't want it.' And he put a donut on Scott's desk. Now by this time, Steve had begun to slow down a little. He just stayed on the floor between sets because it took too much effort to be getting up and down . You could start to see a little perspiration coming out around his brow.

Dr. Christensen started down the third row. Now the students were beginning to get a little angry. Dr. Christensen asked Jenny, 'Jenny, do you want a donut?' Sternly, Jenny said, 'No.' Then Dr. Christensen asked Steve, 'Steve, would you do ten more push-ups so Jenny can have a donut that she doesn't want?' Steve did ten....Jenny got a donut. By now, a growing sense of uneasiness filled the room. The students were beginning to say 'No' and there were all these uneaten donuts on the desks. Steve also had to really put forth a lot of extra effort to get these push-ups done for each donut. There began to be a small pool of sweat on the floor beneath his face, his arms and brow were beginning to get red because of the physical effort involved.

Dr. Christensen asked Robert, who was the most vocal unbeliever in the class, to watch Steve do each push up to make sure he did the full ten push-ups in a set because he couldn't bear to watch all of Steve's work for all of those uneaten donuts. He sent Robert over to where Steve was so Robert could count the set and watch Steve closely. Dr. Christensen started down the fourth row. During his class, however, some students from other classes had wandered in and sat down on the steps along the radiators that ran down the sides of the room. When the professor realized this, he did a quick count and saw that now there were 34 students in the room. He started to worry if Steve would be able to make it. Dr. Christensen went on to the next person and the next and the next. Near the end of that row, Steve was really having a rough time. He was taking a lot more time to complete each set. Steve asked Dr. Christensen, 'Do I have to make my nose touch on each one?' Dr. Christensen thought for a moment, 'Well, they're your push-ups. You are in charge now. You can do them any way that you want.' And Dr. Christensen went on.

A few moments later, Jason, a recent transfer student, came to the room and was about to come in when all the students yelled in one voice, 'NO! Don't come in! Stay out!' Jason didn't know what was going on. Steve picked up his head and said, 'No, let him come.' Professor Christensen said, 'You realize that if Jason comes in you will have to do ten push-ups for him?' Steve said, 'Yes, let him come in. Give him a donut.' Dr. Christensen said, 'Okay, Steve, I'll let you get Jason's out of the way right now. Jason, do you want a donut?' Jason, new to the room, hardly knew what was going on. 'Yes,' he said, 'give me a donut.' Steve, will you do ten push-ups so that Jason can have a donut?' Steve did ten push-ups very slowly and with great effort. Jason, bewildered, was handed a donut and sat down.

Dr. Christensen finished the fourth row, and then started on those visitors seated by the heaters. Steve's arms were now shaking with each push-up in a struggle to lift himself against the force ofgravity. By this time sweat was profusely dropping off of his face, there was no sound except his heavy breathing; there was not a dry eye in the room.The very last two students in the room were two young women, both cheerleaders, and very popular. Dr. Christensen went to Linda, the second to last, and asked, 'Linda, do you want a donut?' Linda said, very sadly, 'No, thank you.' Professor Christensen quietly asked, 'Steve, would you do ten push-ups so that Linda can have a donut she doesn't want?' Grunting from the effort, Steve did ten very slow push-ups for Linda. Then Dr Christensen turned to the last girl, Susan. 'Susan, do you want a donut?' Susan, with tears flowing down her face, began to cry. 'Dr. Christensen, why can't I help him?' Dr. Christensen, with tears of his own, said, 'No, Steve has to do it alone. I have given him this task, and he is in charge of seeing that everyone has an opportunity for a donut whether they want it or not. When I decided to have a party this last day of class, I looked at my grade book. Steve here is the only student with a perfect grade. Everyone else has failed a test, skipped class, or offered me inferior work. Steve told me that in football practice, when a player messes up he must do push-ups. I told Steve that none of you could come to my party unless he paid the price by doing your pushups. He and I madea deal for your sakes.' 'Steve, would you do ten push-ups so Susan can have a donut?' As Steve very slowly finished his last push-up, with the understanding that he had accomplished all that was required of him, having done 350 push-ups, his arms buckled beneath him and he fell to the floor.

Dr. Christensen turned to the room and said. 'And so it was, that our Savior, Jesus Christ, on the cross, plead to the Father, 'Into Thy hands I commend My spirit.' With the understanding that He had done everything that was required of Him, He yielded up His life. And like some of those in this room, many of us leave the gift on the desk, uneaten.'
Two students helped Steve up off the floor and to a seat, physically exhausted, but wearing a thin smile. 'Well done, good and faithful servant,' said the professor, adding 'Not all sermons are preached in words.'

Turning to his class, the professor said, 'My wish is that you might understand and fully comprehend all the riches of grace and mercy that have been given to you through the sacrifice of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He spared not only His Begotten Son, but gave Him up for us all, for the whole Church, now and forever.

Whether or not we choose to accept His gift to us, the price has been paid.' 'Wouldn't you be foolish and ungrateful to leave it lying on the desk?'

Melinda

KITCHEN REMODEL UPDATE

2009-02-06T22:14:00.002-06:00

Well, the wall has come out, the old floor has been pried up, and the new sheetrock on the ceiling has been installed. It's beginning to look like a new place! The new appliances are bought and waiting for installation. The granite has been picked out and paid for, as have the new hardwood flooring.

I love, love, love the wall being gone. Wish I had done it years ago!

It's just a matter of a few days until I have my new dream kitchen.

That is if the carpenters, electrician, painter and plumber will show up and work a full day.

What is it with them getting on the job at 9:00 or so and checking out at 2:00, and they will under no circumstances work on the weekend. Wish I could work those hours. But I'm at their mercy and they know it.

This is a true test of patience, but it will be worth it.

Photos to follow!

Melinda

Betty says hello!

2009-02-03T14:20:00.004-06:00

I have a close personal friend, her name is Betty Crocker. Betty and I go way back, and I mean way back, back to the days when I was learning to cook.

Now, Betty's a lot older than me, but somehow she never seems to age or gain an ounce, from the delectable foods she manages to help me put on my table. I, on the other hand, have not been so lucky. I am definitely showing my age and I am working on the weight issue. (Hello Curves!)

But she's always there when I need something special for my family, whether it's a casserole, a cake, a cooking lesson, or cookies.

Today she shares a very special recipe for the lemon lovers amongst us.

Lemon Creme Bars

1/2 cup cold butter
1 pouch (1 lb 1.5 oz) Betty Crocker® oatmeal cookie mix
1 egg
1 can (14 oz) sweetened condensed milk (not evaporated)
2 teaspoons grated lemon peel
1/4 cup lemon juice

#Heat oven to 350°F. Spray bottom of 8-inch square pan with cooking spray.
2.
In large bowl, cut butter into cookie mix, using fork or pastry blender. Stir in egg until mixture is crumbly. Press half of cookie mixture into bottom of pan; bake 15 minutes.
3.
In small bowl, stir condensed milk, lemon peel and lemon juice until thick. Spread over baked crust. Crumble remaining cookie mixture over top.

Bake about 25 minutes longer or until light golden brown.

Refrigerate 30 minutes or until set. For bars, cut into 5 rows by 5 rows.

Store covered in refrigerator. (if there's any left)

High Altitude (3500-6500 ft): Heat oven to 375°F.

I can already hear you smackin' those lips.

Thank you Betty!

Melinda

Laugh for the day!

2009-02-02T10:50:00.004-06:00

Although I didn't vote for Barack Obama, he is now my President, and I will honor and respect his position, I swear, I promise, but after I share this!

"That Obama Dude keeps talking about change....."

"I've been thru the change, and trust me
YOU DON'T WANT TO GO THERE!!!!

Can I hear an AMEN!!!!!

and

Aretha's hat is the hit of the season! It's showing up everywhere.

Don't hold it in, go ahead and laugh! Laughter is good for the soul!

Melinda

Ya learn something new everyday!

2009-02-02T10:26:00.001-06:00

I had to go into the kitchen and check this out for myself.

Whoever looks at the end of your aluminum foil box? You know when you try to pull some foil out and the roll comes out of the box. Then you have to put the roll back in the box and start over. The darn roll always comes out at the wrong time.Well, I would like to share this with you. Yesterday I went to throw out an empty Reynolds foil box and for some reason I turned it and looked at the end of the box. And written on the end it said, Press here to lock end. Right there on the end of the box is a tab to lock the roll in place. How long has this little locking tab been there? I then looked at a generic brand of aluminum foil and it had one, too.

I then looked at a box of Saran wrap and it had one too! I can't count the number of times the Saran wrap roll has jumped out when I was trying t o cover something up.

I'm sharing this with my friends. I hope I'm not the only person that didn't know about this.

Melinda

Choices, choices, aaghhh!

2009-01-27T21:57:00.001-06:00

I need your help. Which granite do you think would look best in my kitchen?

Tuscan Brown

See my kitchen in previous post, have glazed off white cabinets, will be installing stainless appliances and a light color hardwood floor.

I can't make up my mind.

Help, help, me bloggers!!

Melinda

Renovation Reality has set in!

2009-01-27T21:04:00.003-06:00

Let's see today is Wednesday, work was suppose to start on Monday. Has it? Heck no, nobody has bothered to show up. Guess once you make the committment to the contractor he takes his sweet time.

I am sooooooooo frustrated. It's been two weeks and the roof is not completely repaired much less new shingles installed. Monday and Tuesday were absolutely beautiful days here in Birmingham, but no roof work was happening at my house. Builder promises they'll show tomorrow if it's not raining, guess what, weather forecast is rain. Wonder if they can work inside when it rains, hah, I doubt it.

I think I'll take some advice from Bear, just go back to bed and CHILL!!!!!

Melinda

Bye bye 1970's kitchen!

2009-01-25T19:26:00.007-06:00

Tomorrow the builders will start renovations in my kitchen. The bar will be removed to make way for a center island. I will be getting all new stainless steel appliances, granite countertops, and hardwood floors. I am so excited and confused and worried. Am I making the right choices for my countertops and floors? I have looked online, offline, snooped in new houses, gotten opinions, but when it comes down to it, it's my choice.

The one major change I am sure of, this wall is coming down!!! At least the part between the blue tape. That will open the kitchen to the den and make it more of a cohesive place.

So these are the before photos, can't wait to show you the after!

Melinda

Love this arrangement and color scheme!

2009-01-23T10:42:00.003-06:00

This is from Southern Living. I love the browns, and blues onthe sofa and pillows. Plus the prints with the white platters hanging with them are calling my name.

I am trying to figure out how to incorporate blue back into my house. Years ago the entire house was blue and I have spent a lot of time changing it. Now I want to go back? Are you kidding me? The new aquas hues mixed with the browns are catching my eye lately.

Since I'm in process of redoing my kitchen, if I incorporate blue in there, in means I will have to rethink the rest of my house. Fortunately, my basic furniture and walls are neutrals, so I'll have to ditch the greens and start moving in the aquas.

I want to give a special thank you to my sister-in-law, Sallywhite at http://brickhousebrownshutters.blogspot.com/, she's the one that gets me started on all these changes. Geeez Sally!!!!

Guess it's true when you update one room, you mess up the rest of them.

Melinda

Cosmetic Class Action Suit

2009-01-20T13:27:00.004-06:00

In order to settle a class action lawsuit for overcharging on cosmetics, Macy's is giving away $175 million in free cosmetics.

You have to go into the store in order to receive yours, but they are giving away good stuff.

Boucheron, Chanel, and Ralph Lauren perfumes, Clinique Moisure Surge, Estee Lauder Advanced Night repair, L'Oreal mascara. Go to http://www.cosmeticssettlement.com/ for full list.

These are not sample size, they are full size. It also applies to Dillards and Nordstroms.

Check it out!

Melinda

One Nation Under God!

2009-01-20T09:30:00.004-06:00

Dear Lord,

Please lay your loving hands on President Obama's heart and lead him to make the best decisions for our country. In God We Trust!

Melinda

Be still my heart!

2009-01-16T16:23:00.001-06:00

I covet this rug from Pottery Barn so bad for my family room. I just love it!

Melinda

Today's Quote!

2009-01-15T11:02:00.001-06:00

If you don't have the time to do something right, where are you going to find the time to fix it?

Stephen King

This definitely applies to me now. I am impatient to get my roof replaced and move on to my kitchen remodel. Yesterday I went to pick out the roof shingles, and I was torn between Heathered Wood or Driftwood. Think I'll go with Heather Wood because my house is yellow brick with brown tones, and it has more of a brown tint. The Driftwood is more gray.

I've been planning these changes in my head for years, and I'm having trouble being patient, now that it's time to implement them.

I will be posting photos of the current kitchen and of the remodel as it progresses. My big issue now with the interior will be what color to paint the kitchen.

Have a good day!

Melinda

FREE BOTTLE OF SUAVE SHAMPOO

2009-01-14T14:08:00.002-06:00

Hurry, you have to register before midnight tonight.

http://www.suave.com/nomics/index.html

Melinda

Much needed laugh!

2009-01-13T10:44:00.002-06:00

The talking dog.

A guy is driving around Wadsworth, Ohio and he sees a sign in front of a house: "Talking Dog For Sale." He rings the bell and the owner tells him the dog is in the backyard. The guy goes into the backyard and sees a Labrador retriever sitting there. "You talk?" he asks. "Yep," the Lab replies.

"So, what's your story?" The Lab looks up and says, "Well, I discovered that I could talk when I was pretty young. I wanted to help the government, so I told the CIA about my gift, and in no time at all they had me jetting from country to country, sitting in rooms with spies and world leaders, because no one figured a dog would be eavesdropping. I was one of their most valuable spies for eight years running."

"But the jetting around really tired me out, and I knew I wasn't getting any younger so I decided to settle down. I signed up for a job at the airport to do some undercover security wandering near suspicious characters and listening in. I uncovered some incredible dealings and was awarded a batch of medals. I got married, had a mess of puppies, and now I'm just retired."

The guy is amazed. He goes back in and asks the owner what he wants for the dog. "Ten dollars," the guy says. "Ten dollars? This dog is amazing. Why on earth are you selling him so cheaply?"

"Because he's lying, he never did any of that stuff."

Melinda

Sounds awful, but taste yummy!!!!!!!

2009-01-10T22:23:00.003-06:00

Deep Fried Ham instead of turkey!

Trust me, this is absolutely delicious.

Not a fresh ham, but a regular old cured ham, or honey baked ham, even sliced hams work.

Ingredients
7 to 10 lb ham
marinade, (optional, anything injectable)
peanut oil (for your deep fryer, aprox 5 gallons, less for a larger ham)

Directions:
Thaw ham completely and pat dry

(When deep frying moisture on surface will cause a lot of oil popping and splatering, be careful)

Place the hame in the steamer basket that comes with turkey deep fryer and carefully and slowly lower the basket into the hot oil. 350 to 375 degrees

Stand back, there is a lot of moisture in the ham.

Cook the ham about 3 1/2 to 4 minutes per pound.

If the oil cools down, just watch the temp and adjust your cooking time.

WORD OF WARNING, this looks like a big deflated black tire when it comes out of the oil, but not be scared, the inside will be pink and luscious!

This was so good, all of this ham was eaten.

Melinda

A very special thank you!

2009-01-08T12:42:00.003-06:00

Thank you Joanna Brittain a Southern Girl Blog Designs for my new blog design.

You'll never know how much I appreciate this gift!

If you're interested in having her help you, please give her a visit at http://momof2andwife.blogspot.com or http://thissoutherngirlsnest.blogspot.com

Melinda

God's Sense of Humor!

2009-01-08T12:25:00.003-06:00

Somehow I know that God is on this one!

We have been in desperate need for a new roof and I was planning on buying one as soon as I sold my Mom's house. As you know, I now have a contract on it and are planning to close on 1/15/09. Being that the roof was a major priority, I had started on Monday calling roofers to drop by and give me estimates. I've been praying for a major hail storm so insurance could buy me the new roof, but no such luck.

January in Alabama is usually one of the coldest months, but last Tuesday the temp here was 69 degrees, which means storms are headed our way. True to form they arrived at 3:13 Tuesday and huge Hickory tree fell on my house.

I had also been planning to renovate my kitchen, which is the room right under this tree. So not only did God answer my prayer about the roof, he also is helping me out with the kitchen. But he's doing it his way.

So although this is going to a major hassle, it's also a double blessing, and I recognize it when I see it.

Melinda

How do I let go?

2009-01-05T09:16:00.006-06:00

I am in the process of cleaning out my Mom's house, as it appears this sale is actually going through. My husband says I cannot bring anything else to our house!!!

However, I'm having trouble letting go of things that generate memories of my parents lives and our childhoods.

Dishes, I do not need anymore dishes, but I have boxed up Mom's wedding china, the clear glass party plates she so adored, her iron skillets that produced such fabulous cornbread. I cannot and will not let someone else take these items from me. I can remember all of the wonderful Thanksgivings and Christmas dinner that we served on her china, all the times we used and loaned out the clear party plates, and the iron skillet produced wonderful cornbread on almost a daily basis. I am not capable of making her cornbread, there was no recipe, she just made it. Hopefully, the iron skillet will magically produce it for me.

Then there is her fur coat. I know fur is not politically correct, but in her eyes, having a mink coat was one of the best things that ever happened to her. I cannot wear it, neither can my daughter, but I guess I will keep it and when I'm missing her, wrap myself around it.

She apparently saved every card that her children and grandchildren gave her for the past 20 years. Throwing them away seem so callous. They meant so much to her, shouldn't they mean the same to us?

Somehow having these things will comfort me. But I think my daughter summed things up, pretty well.

She said, "Mom, when you take all of this stuff to our house, I'll just have to go through it in 30 or 40 years". She's right, she will, but I hope she has as much trouble letting go as I'm having. It means you had a wonderful, loving family, and you're full of love because of these memories.

Sorry, Lindsay!

Melinda

Hope you got what you wanted for Christmas!!

2008-12-29T15:10:00.002-06:00

I got an a really great unexpected gift, a brand new laptop!!!! Love it, I am learning to use it, which is going to take a lot of effort since I can technology stupid. Hopefully, now I can do more photos on this blog. I hope to post a current photo of my kitchen so I can get input on the renovation.

The other thing I got that I could have done without, is a big fat sprained ankle. I was headed to my Mom's house on Saturday, motivated to really get some work done cleaning out, and fell off my front porch step and twisted my left ankle really bad. At first I thought it was broken, but since I can move it, it's probably just a really bad sprain. However, Saturday and Sunday were useless days for me, couldn't walk. How stupid can I get???????????

Sometimes it doesn't pay to get out of bed.

Hope you had a wonderful Christmas weekend!!!

Melinda

Good news!!!!

2008-12-26T19:52:00.003-06:00

My mom's house is under contract!!! Thanks to the horrible real estate market, we got less than we wanted but figured the market would only get worse before it got better, so we took what we could get. Just an inspection and appraisal stands between me and this big monkey being off my back.

Next up? Well, if the house sells, I am going to do a major kitchen renovation on a small budget. For $10,000 I'm hoping to remove the wall between the kitchen and family room, get new appliances, including a gas cook top and double ovens, new flooring and a island. As you can tell, this is going to be a challenge. I will be soliciting help from you guys, so don't be shy. I'll post the before photos soon, and you'll see for yourselves that it's desperately past due.

Hope you had a great Christmas and a will have a fabulous New Year!

Melinda

Gold, Incense, and Myrrh

2008-12-18T09:13:00.002-06:00

by: Marybeth Whalen

"On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold and of incense and of myrrh."
Matthew 2:11 (NIV)

Whether you grew up in church or not, you've probably heard the story of the three wise men placing gifts before the baby Jesus, throwing their own little royal baby shower. Christmas carols tell of it and many a Christmas pageant has featured children with crowns askew, tottering in with their royal gifts.

Yet far from soft blue blankets and a selection of baby toys, these three kings brought seemingly odd gifts for the tiny Savior. They placed at His feet gold, frankincense and myrrh. The Bible doesn't tell us what Mary and Joseph did with Jesus' gifts, but I have to wonder. Unless she understood what they meant, I can almost picture Mary saying, "Wow, umm, thanks. I know just where I'll put these!"

I recently learned that each of these gifts has a symbolic meaning. When we study these meanings, the wise men's gifts take on much greater significance, a significance that is at once sobering and amazing.

Gold has always been a symbol of royalty. This gift signaled the wise men's understanding of who this child was, and how we should receive Him. Because of this child, we are transformed from lowly paupers to royalty seated with Christ (Ephesians 2:6). He had to leave the perfection and grandeur of heaven in order to walk among us, trading His royalty for a time, but never losing His deity.

Incense was a symbol of His purity. Because He was born sinless and lived a perfect life, Jesus was that perfect lamb, without blemish, offered up for our sins. Incense was used as a fragrant offering to God. But the beauty of the scent couldn't be released without being touched by fire. Jesus' life became a fragrant offering through the flames of affliction. And in His death, we receive His purity.

Myrrh symbolized death, as it was used for embalming in those times. Nothing says "congratulations on the birth of your baby" like a little symbolic death! As these men laid this odd collection of gifts at the feet of this child, a little shiver had to have run down His mother's spine when that last one was placed before Him. Already Lord? She had to be thinking. Do I have to start letting Him go already? But I suspect Mary knew that to accomplish His purposes on earth, Jesus' life had to end. And now as we seek to follow Him, our lives have to end as He asks us to die to self and to take up our cross and follow Him.

Have you ever asked yourself why the wise men chose those gifts? While we will never know for sure this side of heaven, I think it's because they listened to God. He directed them to bring these gifts as an outward statement of Jesus' ultimate purpose. Each one points to suffering and death that ultimately leads to transformation. Jesus didn't come to earth to be born, He came to earth to die so we could be reborn.

This Christmas I pray we keep our hearts focused on the meaning in the wise men's gifts -- and give our lives to Him, just as He gave His life to us.

This is from a website,http://www.crosswalk.com/ , that I receive a daily devotion from. It's a great site, check it out.

Melinda

Meet Bear!

2008-12-17T15:28:00.005-06:00

He's only a year old and belongs to my daughter, who goes to the University of Alabama, she did not name him Bear, he came already named that. (coincidence? I think not, it was meant to be) She found him on Craig's list, his next move was to the pound and she couldn't stand that, so he went to live with her in Tuscaloosa, where every dog is named "Bear". (wonder why?)

Since it's Christmas break, Bear now calls my house "home", he's 85 pounds of lap dog. He thinks he's meant to be in your lap, you can't persuade him otherwise. The fact that just the front end of him fits, is just enough to make him happy. It's like having a 85 lb, 1 year old in the house. I have two older dogs, Bandit, a 15 year old Shitzu, who hates Bear's guts, and snaps at him anytime he's within 5 feet of him, the other one, Buddy, a 12 year old peek a poo, wants to be Bears' friend, but can't quite do it because Bear wants to wrestle all the time with him. Buddy and Bear wrestling is like Hulk Hogan vs Tiny Tim, not a fair fight. Buddy quickly becomes intimidated, and ends up in a growling snapping fit. We are constantly sending them back to their corners.

Oh and I forgot to mention, Ally (the cat). I think you can figure that out for yourself. Not a pretty picture, is it?

Our house is now clearly a three ring circus, cat kept in living room, Bear kept in den, Buddy and Bandit locked out of den.

I'm beginning to miss the peace and quiet of the empty nest syndrome.

Oh, and my husband is not an animal lover, so he's stays in his man cave in the basement.

But Bear clearly LOVES us, and we love him. Boy did he get lucky when Lindsay found him!

Melinda

I always knew I was a White Trash kind of girl!

2008-12-16T15:47:00.004-06:00

Hey, get your mind out of the gutter.

I'm talking about the "gourmet" christmas snackie (is that a word) mix that you have to keep on hand at Christmas!

The cast:

2 cups of corn chex cereal
2 cups of rice chex cereal
2 cups of cheerios
2 cups of mini pretzels
2 cups of salted peanuts
1 bag of dried cranberries
1 large bag of m & ms
(and anything else you'd like to include)
1 package of white candy bark

Mix all dry ingredients together in large (I mean big, folks), this has to have room to spread out and get coated with chocolate.

Put candy bark in bowl and melt in microwave until creamy. Pour over cereal mixture to coat well. Gently press into a cake sheet pan until chocolate hardens. Then break up and store into an air tight container.

This is really good stuff! Impress your family!

Melinda

Come on baby, let's do it just one time!

2008-12-11T14:50:00.004-06:00

It's a romantic full moon, when Pedro said, "Hey, mamacita, let's do Weeweechu."Oh no, not now, let's look at the moon!" said Rosita.

Oh, c'mon baby, let's you and I do Weeweechu. I love you and it's the perfect time," Pedro begged.

"But I wanna just hold your hand and watch the moon." replied Rosita.Please, corazoncito, just once, do Weeweechu with me."Rosita looked at Pedro and said, "OK, one time, we'll do Weeweechu."

Pedro grabbed his guitar and they both sang.....

"Weeweechu a Merry Christmas, Weeweechu a Merry Christmas, Weeweechu a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year.

"MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!

Melinda

2008-12-08T10:39:00.002-06:00

Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others belong to us as well.

--Anonymous

Time for a Cookie Swap!!!

2008-12-08T10:21:00.003-06:00

PEANUT BUTTER MICE

Source: www.littleshamrocks.com/.

Yield: 4 dozen.

1 Cup creamy peanut butter

1/2 Cup butter, softened

1/2 Cup sugar

1/2 Cup packed brown sugar

1 Egg

1 Teaspoon vanilla extract

1 1/2 Cups all-purpose flour

1/2 Teaspoon baking soda

1/2 Cup peanut halves

2 Tablespoons green and red miniature M&M’s

4 Teaspoon miniature semi-sweet chocolate chips

48 Pieces red shoestring licorice cut 2 inches long.•

In a large mixing bowl, cream peanut butter, butter, sugar and brown sugar. Beat in egg and vanilla. Combine the flour and baking soda; gradually add to the creamed mixture. Refrigerate for 1 hour or until easy to handle.• Roll into 1 inch balls. Place 2 inches apart on ungreased baking sheets. Pinch each ball at one end to taper. Insert 2 peanut halves in center of each ball for the ears. Add one M&M for the nose and 2 chocolate chips for the eyes.• Bake at 350 for 10 minutes or until set. Gently insert one licorice piece into each warm cookie for the tail. Let cool in pan for 4 minutes, then remove to wire racks to cool completely.

OR make it easy on yourself and buy the redi-made peanut butter cookies to use instead of making cookies from scratch, save yourself some time!!!!

Let your kids help make the mice!!!

Melinda

WHITE CHOCOLATE SNACK MIX

2008-12-05T11:28:00.003-06:00

This is the best snack mix I've ever had. You can adjust the colors of the M & Ms to suite your season!

Here's the recipe:

Melt one package of white almond bark,.

Mix two cups each: Wheat Chex, Corn Chex, cheerios,mini pretzels, M&Ms. (You can substitute other Chex or add peanuts, raisins, dried cranberries or other ingredients if you like.)

Pour melted bark over the mixture.

Spread on a cookie sheet lined with wax paper.

Allow to cool, break into chunks.

Store in airtight container for weeks!

Sooooooo goooood!

Melinda

PS: I made this yesterday and added peanuts and dried cranberries to mine and it is delicious.

I want to believe this, I do!

2008-12-04T13:39:00.001-06:00

When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often we look so long at the closed door
that we do not see the one which has opened for us.-

Helen Keller

Time for some Christmas Crafts!!!

2008-12-02T10:23:00.007-06:00

Ok, for those of you who have nothing to do, here are a few crafts I love.

I will add them to my to do list, or save for my future to do list. (which is only a mile long)

First up, Disco Ball ornaments from http://www.oneprettything.com/ and http://www.ehow.com/.

How to Make a CD Disco Ball Ornament

By eHow Hobbies, Games & Toys Editor
Rate: (51 Ratings)

Make your own disco ball using old CDs. This eHow was contributed by one groovy, anonymous person.

InstructionsDifficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

Large Styrofoam Balls With Hanger

Colored Light Bulbs

Flood Lighting

Glue Guns Hot Glue Sticks

Cutting Boards Scissors Scissors

X-Acto Knives

Straightedges Ruler thin

strong ropes

Step1: Cut up old CDs into 1/2-inch or 1-centimeter squares.

Step 2: Glue them to the outside of some kind of ball or spherical object.

Step 3: Cut a string and push through the spherical object and hang it from the rafters.

Step 4: Shine lights (ideally multicolored) onto the ball.

Step 5: Bingo! Disco ball.

and go visit http://mysweetsavannah.blogspot.com/ to make this fabulous faux snowballs.

Have fun!

Melinda

On to Christmas!

2008-12-01T10:00:00.004-06:00

Well, Thanksgiving was good, quieter than normal, but we had a lovely dinner with my MIL and BIL. I cooked way too much food, didn't quite scale down enough for a small group. Put away the Thanksgiving stuff, and

NOW ON TO CHRISTMAS! The gathering at my house on Christmas will be considerably larger, say around 20 to 25 people. I was asked to host my neighborhoods ornament swap on December 6th, but I finally managed to say NO, which is not a word I use too often. I am actually proud of myself for adding that word to my vocabulary.

This year's color scheme at my house is going to be a little different, lime green and purple! My daughters choice. The outside wreaths and mailbox are now sporting lovely lime green bows, the lighted reindeer will also be sporting these bright colors. Our inside tree has a beautiful sparkly purple bow and streamers to go with the very brightly colored lights on our tree and so does the fireplace. The packages under the tree are also wrapped in the various shades of the new green, and purple. It actually looks very festive.

Still have lots of work to do on the decorating, hopefully, we get some photos posted here. I still haven't learned to upload photos from my digital camera, need DDs help.

Melinda

Have a great Thanksgiving!!!!!

2008-11-26T08:56:00.002-06:00

Enjoy your day with your family and friends. Be thankful for the many blessing in your life, past and present.

Melinda

Wet or Dry Brine? Oh me, oh my.

2008-11-25T13:55:00.003-06:00

Today starts the kitchen countdown to Thanksgiving. I made the cornbread for my dressing last night, Thursday morning it will be mixed with chicken stock and other things to make the delicous cornbread dressing to go with the Turkey.

Speaking of the Turkey. I had made up my mind that this year I was going to brine my turkey in a wet brine mixture for 24 hours starting tomorrow morning. However, I saw this on http://www.notmartha.org/ and am now torn between a wet or dry brine.

Turkey Technique: The Dry Brine

In the Los Angeles Times, Russ Parsons shares a turkey cooking technique inspired by Judy Rodgers, the chef/owner of San Francisco's Zuni Cafe.

He calls it "dry-brining": "You just salt the turkey a few days in advance, give it a brisk massage every so often to redistribute the salt, and then roast it." The salt releases moisture from the turkey, which gets reabsorbed by the meat, essentially brining the bird in its own juices.
While wet-brining -- soaking the turkey in a saltwater solution -- has become a very popular way of preparing turkey, Parsons notes the technique often leads to a spongy texture. On the other hand, dry-brining leaves the turkey "firm and meaty."

While the technique is straightforward, make sure you leave enough time for the turkey to brine (three days), though Parsons writes that you can cut it back to two days.

Just salting down the bird and giving him a little message every so often sounds so much easier than mixing, cooking, cooling, pouring into a bag, putting the bag in a cooler with ice.

Heck what am I saying, time is of the essence here, so my bird is going to have to settle for a massage instead of a leisurely soak in the tub!

Gobble, gobble!

Have a great Thanksgiving!

Melinda

I forgot the Deviled Eggs!!

2008-11-20T11:50:00.005-06:00

But was quickly reminded by my daughter when running the Thanksgiving menu by her.

After running thru the list, she said isn't something missing?

Turkey, check,

dressing, check,

cranberry sauce, check,

green beans, check,

sweet potato casserole, check,

rolls, check,

pecan pie, check,

cheesecake, (f0r her), check

What?

iced tea, check

Mom, you forgot the Deviled Eggs. We can't have Thanksgiving without them!!!!!

She's right, I forgot, and they are the standard Thanksgiving and Christmas item in our family.

Ok, they're on the list now, but they will be changed, in keeping with my theme of Thanksgiving Re-Deux.

Here's my new recipe for Deviled Eggs.

12 hard boiled eggs, peeled

1 oz container soft spreadable cream cheese ( I previously used mayo)

2 tablespoons sweet relish

2 teaspoons mustard

salt and pepper

Peel eggs and slice lengthwise. place yolks in mixing bowl and set whites aside.

Mash yolks with cream cheese, then add the relish and mustard,

Taste, add salt and pepper, taste again, add more salt.

Fill white with egg mixture. Sprinkle with Paprika.

Sounds gooood!!!!!! Wish I had about 4 of these puppies right now!

Melinda

I love Maxine!

2008-11-19T08:49:00.004-06:00

She tells it like it is, doesn't she!

Is this why my brothers are going elsewhere for Thanksgiving?

Just kiddin'!

I get to make them suffer with my cooking at Christmas!

Melinda

In quietness and in trust shall be your strength." Isaiah 30:13

2008-11-18T09:12:00.005-06:00

Words I'm trying to live by right now. As you know my Mother passed away in July 2007.

We've (my brothers and I) had her house on the market since January 2008, we did actually have a contract on it, but when the real estate market started it's slide, that contract fell apart due to the financing changing.

We have it priced well below market value, and have not had much luck on it, due to the current economic situation. It is a great house in a great neighborhood and one of the best school systems (Vestavia Hills) in Birmingham, move in condition, new granite in the kitchen, new roof, etc, etc.

However, my prayers may be answered. We have two couples who are seriously looking at it.
Please say a prayer with me that God will shower his mercy on us and we'll sell the house. I have been patient and prayerful for a long time now and it would be a real blessing for my brothers and I, if someone would make this wonderful house their new family home.

It doesn't help that is one block from my house and I have to pass it several times a day, and seeing it sitting empty and dark saddens my heart. I know I would be happier and in a better place emotionally, seeing it occupied by a new family.

In quietness and in trust shall be your strength." Isaiah 30:13

Amen!

Melinda

Pink Fluff!!!

2008-11-17T14:53:00.005-06:00

Ok, continuing my theme of the not so ordinary Thanksgiving, I am retiring the green congealed salad, and replacing it with PINK FLUFF!!!

Yep, this stuff is guaranteed to spice up that Thanksgiving buffet. It's glorious pink color provides just that spark of color you need, plus it is absolutely delicious.

PINK FLUFF!!!

1 12 oz carton Cool Whip, thawed

2 cups miniature marshmallows

1 cup chopped pecans

1 16 oz can crushed pineapple, drained

1 12 oz can cherry pie filling

1 12 oz can condensed milk

8 ozs cream cheese softened.

Stir all ingredients together and refrigerate.

Put it in a pretty clear bowl and add a little pep to your menu! Good enough to be enjoyed as dessert too!

Enjoy!

Melinda

LOOK HOW CUTE!!!

2008-11-14T09:47:00.002-06:00

I found these at http://lipstickandlaundry.wordpress.com/

isn't this the cutest idea. I will definitely be making some of these for Thanksgiving.

Here's how to do it;

Hershey Kisses ~ Mini Nilla Wafers ~ Frosting ~

Put a small amount of frosting on the bottom of the Nilla Wafer, place the bottom of the Hershey Kiss to the frosting and add a dab of frosting to the top.

Wouldn't they be precious scattered around a Holiday cookie or cheese tray!

Melinda

Christmas Food Gifts!

2008-11-13T13:42:00.008-06:00

Giving food as a gift is a Southern tradition and I love to give it to neighbors, co-workers, just about anybody.

This year I've been looking for something different and think I've found it, courtesy of The Birmingham News. This is pretty cost friendly too.

Chcolate Gravy!!! Doesn't that sound yummy? Imagine it over hot from the oven, homemade biscuits, or topping a brownie sundae, or a slice of pound cake, or even just over vanilla ice cream.

You make the mix, then the receiver add the milk and butter when they're ready to indulge.

Package it up in a pretty gift bag or box, or put in a baggie and wrap with colorful fabric, or put it in a pretty glass container tied up with a fabulous ribbon.

Attach the instructions on a recipe card and your friend will be thanking you!

Enjoy!

Melinda

Thanksgiving Re-Deux!

2008-11-12T09:32:00.006-06:00

Thanksgiving in the South has very consistent elements. Turkey and cornbread dressing, cranberry sauce, green beans, sweet potato casserole, congealed salad, and desserts. We generally don't change this too much.

But since my Thanksgiving this year is going to a very small event, just me, my husband, daughter, mother-in-law, and brother-in-law, I'm thinking that the usual fare needs to be tweaked, changed, or maybe improved on, just to liven it up.

First up, the green beans. Had these recently and they are fabulous!!!! Don't get me wrong, I like green beans, but I have never been inspired to eat the whole bowl. But these are not your every day green beans. Make these and your kids will be fighting over them.

Wouldn't that be something! Keep the video camera handy.

FORGOTTEN GREAN BEANS

3 cans of whole green beans,drained
1/2 cup of brown sugar
Garlic salt and pepper to taste
5 or 6 slices of bacon
Put drained green beans in a greased 13x9 in pan. Add brown sugar and stir. Sprinkle with garlic salt and pepper. Top with bacon slices.

Cook at 350 covered for 30 min. and uncovered for 30 min.

YUM, YUM, YUM!!!!!

Now, how to re-invent the turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, sweet potato casserole, congealed salad, (already got this one, up next) and desserts, without straying from the required elements of the traditional Southern Thanksgiving menu.

Any suggestions, please let me hear from you.

Melinda

FORGET CHRISTMAS VILLAGE!

2008-11-11T09:59:00.005-06:00

I have it from excellent sources, (My Bunco Group) that this is the place to do your Christmas Shopping in Birmingham. Christmas Village was fun, but things were a little too country and primitive for my taste, ( I didn't buy a thing except food mixes, not a good thing). According to the shopping experts, (again, My Bunco Group), this is the place to knock out a Christmas list. Actually they wanted us to all go together on Thursday, the first day, but unfortunately some of us have jobs. Someday, I will know how how it feels to be one of the lucky ones that doesn't have to get up and go to work EVERYDAY OF MY FREAKIN' LIFE.

(sorry, I just lose control every now and then)

I'll just have to wait until Saturday to make my appearance.

Hope they leave me something to buy!

Check it out!

Melinda

SIGNS OF OVARIAN CANCER

2008-11-10T16:01:00.003-06:00

Even in Women who have had a complete hysterectomy!(Even In The Absence Of Ovaries)
An Eye-Opener On Ovarian Cancer

THIS IS A MUST TO READ TO THE END

Years ago, Gilda Radner died of ovarian cancer. Her symptoms were inconclusive, and she was treated for everything under the sun until it was too late. This blood test finally identified her illness but alas, too late. She wrote a book to heighten awareness. Gene Wilder is her widower.

Kathy's Story: this is the story of Kathy West

I have Primary Peritoneal Cancer. This cancer has only recently been identified as its OWN type of cancer, but it is essentially Ovarian Cancer. Both types of cancer are diagnosed in the same way, with the 'tumor marker' CA-125 BLOOD TEST, and they are treated in the same way - surgery to remove the primary tumor and then chemotherapy with Taxol and Carboplatin. Having gone through this ordeal, I want to save others from the same fate. That is why I am sending this message to you and hope you will print it and give it or send it via E-mail to everybody you know. One thing I have learned is that each of us must take TOTAL responsibility for our own health care. I thought I had done that because I always had an annual physical and PAP smear, did a monthly Self-Breast Exam. When I had a total hysterectomy in 1993, I thought that I did not have to worry about getting any of the female reproductive organ cancers. LITTLE DID I KNOW. I don't have ovaries (and they were HEALTHY when they were removed), but I have what is essentially ovarian cancer. Strange, isn't it? These are just SOME of the things our Doctors never tell us: ONE out of ever 55 women will get OVARIAN or PRIMARY PERITONEAL CANCER. The 'CLASSIC' symptoms are an ABDOMEN that rather SUDDENLY ENLARGES andCONSTIPATION and/or DIARRHEA .I had these classic symptoms and went to the doctor. Because these symptoms seemed to be 'abdominal', I went to a gastroenterologist. He ran tests that were designed to determine whether there was a bacteria infection; these tests were negative, and I was diagnosed with 'Irritable Bowel Syndrome'. I guess I would have accepted this diagnosis had it not been for my enlarged abdomen. I swear to you, it looked like I was 4-5 months pregnant! I therefore insisted on more tests and they reluctantly) scheduled me for a CT-Scan (just to shut me up, I think). This is what I ! mean by 'taking charge" of our own health care.' The CT-Scan showed a lot of fluid in my abdomen (NOT normal). Needless to say, I had to cancel my trip and have FIVE POUNDS of fluid drawn off at the hospital (not a pleasant experience I assure you), but NOTHING compared to what was ahead of me. Tests revealed cancer cells in the fluid. Finally, finally, finally, the doctor ran a CA-125 blood test, and I was properly diagnosed. I HAD THE CLASSIC SYMPTOMS FOR OVARIAN CANCER, AND YET THIS SIMPLE CA-125 BLOOD TEST HAD NEVER BEEN RUN ON ME, not as part of my annual physical exam and not when I was symptomatic. This is an inexpensive and simple bloodtest! PLEASE, PLEASE TELL ALL YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS AND RELATIVES TO INSIST ON A CA-125 BLOOD TEST EVERY YEAR AS PART OF THEIR ANNUAL PHYSICAL EXAMS. Be fore warned that their doctors might try to talk them out of it, saying, 'IT ISN'T NECESSARY.' Believe me, had I known then what I know now, we would have caught my cancer much earlier (before it was a stage 3 cancer). Insist on the CA-125 BLOOD TEST; DO NOT take 'NO' for an answer! The normal range for a CA-125 BLOOD TEST is between zero and 35. MINE WAS 754. (That's right, 754!). If the number is slightly above 35, you can have another done in three or six months and keep a close eye on it, just as women do when they have fibroid tumors or when men have a slightly elevated PSA test (Prostatic Specific Antigens) that helps diagnose prostate cancer. Having the CA-125 test done annually can alert you early, and that's the goal in diagnosing any type of cancer - catching it early.

Do you know 55 women? If so, at least one of them will have this VERY AGGRESSIVE cancer. Please, go to your doctor and insist on a CA-125 test and have one EVERY YEAR for the rest of your life. And forward this message to every woman you know, and tell all of your female family members and friends. Though the median age for this cancer is 56, (and, guess what, I'm exactly 56,) women as young as 22 have it. Age is no factor.

A NOTE FROM AN RN:

Well , after reading this, I made some calls. I found that the CA-125 test is an ovarian screening test equivalent to a man's PSA test prostate screen (which my husband's doctor automatically gives him in his physical each year and insurance pays for it). I called the general practitioner's office about having the test done. The nurse had never heard of it. She told me that she doubted that insurance would pay for it. So I called Prudential Insurance Co, and got the same response. Never heard of it - it won't be covered. I explained that it was the same as the PSA test they had paid for my husband for years. After conferring with whomever they confer with, she told me that the CA-125 would be covered. It is $75 in a GP's office and $125 at the GYN's. This is a screening test that should be required just like a PAP smear (a PAP smear cannot detect problems with your ovaries). And you must insist that your insurance company pay for it.

Gene Wilder and Pierce Brosnan (his wife had it, too) are lobbying for women's health issues, saying that this test should be required in our physicals, just like the PAP and the mammogram.

PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT TO SEND THIS OUT TO ALL THOSE YOU CAN. BE IT MALE OR FEMALE, IT SHOULD NOT MATTER, AS THEY CAN FORWARD IT ALSO TO THOSE LOVED ONES THEY KNOW.

ps. Since my Mom died of Ovarian cancer and I have a fibroid cyst, my gyn automatically does an internal sonar scan and the CA 125 and my insurance always pays for it.
I tell everyone I know to get this test done, they can use the same blood they draw for all the other yearly tests. BUT YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR IT UNLESS THEY HAVE SOME REASON TO DO IT.

Pass it on.

Thanks
Melinda

What is your favorite Holiday food memory?

2008-11-06T09:10:00.008-06:00

Mine is my mothers Fresh Apple Cake. She made it for me at Thanksgiving every year.

This will be my 2nd Thanksgiving without my Mom, she died in July 2007 of Ovarian Cancer. Last year I didn't have the strength or desire to even pretend there was a Thanksgiving or Christmas. I just wanted them to be over with, it was hard to face them without her.

This year however, I'm going to do better for my family's sake. I have my Mom's recipe book and will be attempting to make this cake because it's a tradition we shared, just she and I. It's full of recipe clippings from years back, but this is the ONE recipe that means the most to me.

I would sit at her kitchen table and peel the apples because it hurt her hands to do it, and we would talk as she made the cake magic happen. Maybe my daughter will help me do it this year and we can start this tradition with the next generation.

I know as I smell it cooking, my thoughts will be of my Mother, and how much I loved all the Holidays she made so special.

PROVE TO ME I DON'T HAVE OVARIAN CANCER

2008-11-04T13:32:00.004-06:00

In remembrance of my Mom, (Dorothy Hodgens) who died of Ovarian Cancer in July 2007 and in honor of my new friend at Shoal Creek Cottage, who has defeated the monster.

from her blog. www.shoalcreekcottage.blogspot.com/

If any of these symptoms are unusual for you, can not be explained by existing medical conditions, and persist for more than two weeks, please be sure to bring this to the attention of a physician. INSIST ON BEING TESTED FOR IT. SIMPLE BLOOD TEST!

1.Vague but persistent and unexplained gastrointestinal complaints such as gas, nausea, and indigestion
2.Abdominal bloating, pelvic and/or abdominal pain, and/or feeling of fullness
3.Unexplained change in bowel habits (constipation or diarrhea)
4.Unexplained weight gain or loss
5.Frequency and/or urgency of urination
6.Unusual fatigue
7.Shortness of breath
8.New and unexplained abnormal postmenopausal vaginal bleedingOvarian Cancer:

The FactsCurrently, there is no accurate test for ovarian cancer. The most effective way women can protect themselves against ovarian cancer is to learn the signs and symptoms. If these symptoms are unusual for you and persist, see a health care professional to rule out the possibility of ovarian cancer.

I miss you Momma!

Melinda

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

2008-10-31T09:35:00.002-05:00

Share a prayer!!!

2008-10-27T11:25:00.000-05:00

Dear Friends and Family,

I would like to encourage all of us as one body in Christ to spend a few seconds in prayer for Senator McCain to win in the Nov. 4th Presidential election. Please forward this email to ten Christian friends and ask them not to break the chain. By Nov 4, we will have millions praying for McCain. That's powerful!!

"Lord, we commit Senator McCain into your hands, that you will favor him with a victory in the Nov. 4th election. We pray for your Spirit to anoint him with Your power, strength and wisdom to give him a clear vision for this Nation and to prevail in this campaign. We pray against leaders who condone and advocate homosexuality and abortion, and Lord forgive them and this Nation for its transgressions. In the Holy name of Jesus, Amen"

Amen!

Here's a little religious humor!!

2008-10-23T09:56:00.002-05:00

Pay special attention to the wording and spelling. If you are even remotely familiar with the scripture, you'll find this hilarious! It comes from a Roman Cathotic Elementary school test.

KIDS WERE ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT THE OLD AND NEW TESTAMENT. THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS ABOUT THE BIBLE WERE WRITTEN B Y CHILDREN. THEY HAVE NOT BEEN RETOUCHED OR CORRECTED. INCORRECT SPELLING HAS BEEN LEFT IN.

1. IN THE FIRST BOOK OF THE BIBLE, GUINESSIS GOD GOT TIRED OF CREATING THE WORLD SO HE TOOK THE SABBATH OFF.

2. ADAM AND EVE WERE CREATED FROM AN APPLE TREE. NOAH'S WIFE WAS JOAN OF ARK. NOAH BUILT AND ARK AND THE ANIMALS CAME ON IN PEARS.

3 LOTS WIFE WAS A PILLAR OF SALT DURING THE DAY, BUT A BALL OF FIRE DURING THE NIGHT.

4. THE JEWS WERE A PROUD PEOPLE AND THROUGHOUT HISTORY THEY HAD TROUBLE WITH UNSYMPATHETIC GENITALS.

5. SAMPSON WAS A STRONGMAN WHO LET HIMSELF BE LED ASTRAY BY A JEZEBEL LIKE DELILAH.

6. SAMSON SLAYED THE PHILISTINES WITH THE AXE OF THE APOSTLES.

7. MOSES LED THE JEWS TO THE RED SEA WHERE THEY MADE UNLEAVENED BREAD WHICH IS BREAD WITHOUT ANY INGREDIENTS .

8, THE EGYPTIANS WERE ALL DROWNED IN THE DESSERT. AFTER WARDS, MOSES WENT UP TO MOUNT CYANIDE TO GET THE TEN COMMANDMENTS.

9. THE FIRST COMMANDMENTS WAS WHEN EVE TOLD ADAM TO EAT THE APPLE.
10. THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT IS THOU SHALT NOT ADMIT ADULTERY.

11. MOSES DIED BEFORE HE EVER REACHED CANADA .. THEN JOSHUA LED THE HEBREWS IN THE BATTLE OF GERITOL .

12. THE GREATEST MIRICLE IN THE BIBLE IS WHEN JOSHUA TOLD HIS SON TO STAND STILL AND HE OBEYED HIM.

13. DAVID WAS A HEBREW KING WHO WAS SKILLED AT PLAYING THE LIAR. HE FO UGHT THE FINKELSTEINS, A RACE OF PEOPLE WHO LIVED IN BIBLICAL TIMES.

14. SOLOMON, ONE OF DAVIDS SONS, HAD 300 WIVES AND 700 PORCUPINES.

15. WHEN MARY HEARD SHE WAS THE MOTHER OF JESUS, SHE SANG THE MAGNA CARTA.

16. WHEN THE THREE WISE GUYS FROM THE EAST SIDE ARRIVED THEY FOUND JESUS IN THE MANAGER.

17. JESUS WAS BORN BECAUSE MARY HAD AN IMMACULATE CONTRAPTION.

18. ST. JOHN THE BLACKSMITH DUMPED WATER ON HIS HEAD.

19. JESUS ENUNCIATED THE GOLDEN RULE, WHICH SAYS TO DO UNTO OTHERS BE FORE THEY DO ONE TO YOU. HE ALSO EXPLAINED A MAN DOTH NOT LIVE BY SWEAT ALONE..

20. IT WAS A MIRICLE WHEN JESUS ROSE FROM THE DEAD AND MANAGED TO GET THE TOMBSTONE OFF THE ENTRANCE.

21. THE PEOPLE WHO FOLLOWED THE LORD WERE CALLED THE 12 DECIBELS.

22. THE EPISTELS WERE THE WIVES OF THE APOSTLES.

23. ONE OF THE OPPOSSUMS WAS ST. MATTHEW WHO WAS ALSO A TAXIMAN.

24. ST. PAUL CAVORTED TO CHRISTIANITY, HE PREACHED HOLY ACRIMONY WHICH IS ANOTHER NAME FOR MARRAIGE.

25. CHRISTIANS HAVE ONLY ONE SPOUSE . THIS IS CALLED MONOTONY

I'm in charge of my church's fall festival, so I'l be busy, busy, busy for the next couple of days.

Have a great weekend!

Melinda

TOO FUNNY!!!! SO TRUE!!!!

2008-10-23T08:31:00.004-05:00

Maybe putting something in such simple terms will help people understand where we're headed if Obama is elected President.

Exercise your right to vote, but also exercise your right to think before you do.

Here's something else to think about:

This cuts through the crap and zeroes in on the gut issue quickly! Are we all aboard the USS Ship of Fools? Makes me wonder!

You couldn't get a job at McDonalds and become district manager after 143 days of experience.
You couldn't become chief of surgery after 143 days of experience of being a surgeon.
You couldn't get a job as a teacher and be the superintendent after 143 days of experience.
You couldn't join the military and become a Colonel after a 143 days of experience.
You couldn't get a job as a reporter and become the nightly news anchor after 143 days of experience.
You couldn't become a police officer and become the Chief of Police after 143 days of experience.
You couldn't work on the assembly line and become the President of General Motors after 143 days of experience

BUT....
'From the time Barack Obama was sworn in as a United State Senator, to the time he announced he was forming a Presidential exploratory committee, he logged 143 days of experience in the Senate.
That's how many days the Senate was actually in session and working.
After 143 days of work experience, Obama believed he was ready to be Commander In Chief, Leader of the Free World, and fill the shoes of Abraham Lincoln, FDR, JFK and Ronald Reagan. 143 days?

We all have to start somewhere. The senate is a good start, but after 143 days, that's all it is - a start.

AND, strangely, a large sector of the American public seems to feel comfortable with this and campaigning for him. This makes me wonder...

Who REALLY wants this man in office so badly?????? Something very fishey about this!!!!! We wouldn't accept this in our own line of work, yet some are OK with this for the President of the United States of America ?

Come on folks.........

we are not voting for the next American Idol.

Ok, that's my say. No more politics will be spoken here.

Have a great day!

Melinda

Girls Night Out!

2008-10-20T13:09:00.003-05:00

If you girls don't have a neighborhood Bunco game that you're involved in, you're missing out on a lot of fun! I've been playing with 12 of my neighborhood friends, once a month, for about 4 years now. We each do it once a year at our house, we serve dinner and a great dessert and laugh our heads off. No dieting allowed on Bunco night!

It's a great way to get to know the ladies in your area, share great fellowship and lots of laughter!!!

Get your own game going soon!!

Mandatory Thanksgiving Fare!

2008-10-15T09:17:00.007-05:00

I am the designated Sweet Potato Casserole guru of our family. It is my job to supply this delicacy to our Thanksgiving feast. I've shared the recipe with my sister in laws but they all say they can't make it like mine. (yeah right) The secret to this recipe is to use fresh potatoes, you cannot used canned ones, well you can, but it won't taste the same. And do not go anywhere near this recipe with a marshmallow.

The big secret?

Boil the potatoes in their peeling, do not peel and cook, do not bake.

Here's the recipe!

6 to 7 large sweet potatoes

3 eggs

1 cup of sugar (or more depending on how sweet you like it) taste, then taste again, maybe one more taste, then adjuster sugar to your liking

1 tablespoon vanilla

1 stick of butter.

Boil sweet potatoes (in peeling) until soft. Let cool just until you can hold them. Peel and put in large mixer bowl. Beat potatoes with mixer until well mashed.

add butter, sugar, vanilla, beat well, (this will cool down potatoes before you add the eggs)

then add eggs and beat it it, just beat it. (sorry)

Pour into greased 13 x 9 pan.

Topping:

1 box dark brown sugar

1 1/2 cup chopped pecans.

1/2 cup melted butter.

Mix and spread over top of potatoes.

Bake at 350 until middle is puffed and topping is gooey. About 45 minutes.

Let cool, it will be hard to do but a necessity if you value the roof of your mouth, serve and fight over the leftovers!

Yep it's that easy and so worth it!

2008-10-06T14:31:00.001-05:00

Super Easy Halloween Craft

2008-10-06T14:28:00.002-05:00

This is the kind of project I like, cheap and easy, but still cute. From Better Home & Gardens.com

Tin Can Luminarias
Light up the night Halloween-style with orange and black luminarias. Even young trick-or-treaters can make these cheerful lights with some adult help.

Materials
Tracing paper
Permanent marker
Clean empty tin cans
Hammer and large nail
Spray paint: orange and black
Wire
Tea-light candles

Instructions
Using tracing paper, trace the pumpkin face or bat patterns (download below), or make your own design. Transfer the pattern of your choice to a clean tin can; go over the transferred pattern with a permanent marker. Fill the tin can with water; place it in the freezer. When the water in the can is frozen, remove the can from the freezer.
Use a hammer and nail to puncture the design in the can. Punch two holes in the rim of the can on opposite sides, centering the design between the two holes. Let the ice melt; allow the can to dry completely.
Cut a 16-inch length of wire. Insert one end of the wire into a hole in the rim; twist the end of the wire around the wire length. Insert the other wire end through the other hole in the rim, securing the wire in the same manner.
Spray paint the pumpkin can orange and the bat can black. Let the paint dry. Place a tea-light candle inside the can and hang securely from a branch or garden hook.
Patterns

2008-10-06T09:01:00.000-05:00

Bright Star Lemon Pie

2008-10-06T08:53:00.004-05:00

There is a restaurant in Bessemer, Al. called the Bright Star. It's been around all of my life (a lot of years), that people travel from all corners of Alabama to eat at. One of the main attractions are their desserts! The lemon pie is one of the favorites and at long last, they've shared the recipe with us!

The Bright Star's Lemon Icebox Pie

4 14-ounce cans sweetened condensed milk, chilled
4 egg yolks, slightly beaten
1 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice, chilled
2 9-inch graham-cracker pie crusts (homemade or store-bought)
1 can whipped cream (for topping)

In a bowl, mix together sweetened condensed milk and egg yolks. In a steady stream while whisking, add lemon juice to mixture until well blended.(Note: mixture will thicken.) Pour mixture into pie crusts. Refrigerate at least one hour. Before serving, top pie with whipped cream. (Makes two 9-inch pies)

I made them this weekend for the hubby, who couldn't wait. They are fabulous. You must give this one a try!

Melinda

Homemade Linen Sprays

2008-10-02T10:08:00.003-05:00

What a great idea for Teachers Gifts!!!!

from www.hallmark.com, comes a very simple, but elegant gift idea.

I can't wait to try this one.

Homemade linen sprays are such a luxurious yet simple gift that you’ll want to mix an extra bottle for yourself. By Amy Palanjian

SPRITZ A LITTLE on your sheets, or into the air of your bedroom, and breathe deeply. When it’s time to retreat indoors, a quick-to-concoct handmade linen spray can infuse your every day with the lighthearted scents of summer. And unlike pricey store-bought sprays that can be overly perfumed, all three of these unique combinations are fresh-smelling. With just four easy-to-find ingredients and these free Hallmark Magazine custom labels, you can create a thoughtful and personalized present.

JASMINE BERGAMOT A heady combination of potent floral and clean citrus, this is a gift for your most romantic and flower-loving friends.

LAVENDER SANDALWOOD Help soothe stress with the relaxing scent of lavender, rooted in the earthiness of sandalwood.

VANILLA GINGER Give the comforting aroma of vanilla, spiced up with a hint of ginger, to welcome the chilly weather.

The RecipeMakes 1 liter of linen spray2 tablespoons 100 proof vodka1 teaspoon jasmine oil and ½ teaspoon bergamot oilor1 teaspoon lavender oil and ½ teaspoon sandalwood oilor 1 teaspoon vanilla oil and 2 drops ginger oil 16- or 32-ounce bottle and sprayer Distilled water Mix the vodka and desired oils in a bottle. Add the distilled water until just full, screw on cap and shake to combine. (The alcohol helps disperse the oils evenly throughout the liquid.) Shake lightly before each use.

Oils: .5-ounce oils, $10–$47, frontiercoop.com.Madera Bottle: $.52 and Fine Mist Sprayer, $37; containerandpackaging.com; Boston Round Bottle, $1.50 and Metal Cap $.61; freundcontainer.com. NOTE: Both sites charge a $10–$15 processing fee on small orders.

2008-09-11T08:22:00.002-05:00

A day we will never forget. A day we don't want to repeat.

God Bless America!

God bless those who are serving our country to protect us!

Best Brownies in the world!

2008-08-27T11:05:00.002-05:00

Here's an easy recipe for special brownies that will have people begging you for the recipe.

Two boxes of Betty Crocker (family size) brownie mix
(prepare per instructions on box)
3 large (family) size chocolate candy bars (hersheys, Mr. Goodbar, Butterfinger, Heath, Dove, etc)

Line 9 x 13 pan with aluminum foil (do this, you'll be glad you did)

Pour1/2 of batter (1 box) into bottom of pan and spread out.

Then line the pan with 3 large chocolate bars of your choice. I'm talking the big ones, like 5 x 3 inches, you can find them in the candy isle. I prefer butterfinger.

Then pour remaining batter (2nd box) on top of the butter finger candy bars.

Bake at 350 until middle is done, it will take slightly longer than box directions. Keep checking middle for doneness.

Allow them to cool, completely, then remove them from pan with aluminum foil and slice into squares. I like to use a pizza cutter.

These are a cross between a brownie and fudge. Fabulous!!!!!

The Sun is Out!

2008-08-27T10:49:00.002-05:00

After 3 days of almost non-stop rain, this morning the sun is shining brightly. It is so good to see it again, but I'm afraid, we've got another round of tropical rainfall coming our way, thanks to Gustave.

Where do they get these names anyway? What's wrong with Gus, Greg, George, or for that matter Melinda?

So until we meet Gustave, let's enjoy the sunshine!

Has anybody got any good falls crafts that would like show us?

Puppy Love!!!

2008-08-25T09:35:00.003-05:00

One of the loves of my life is my Shitzu, Bandit. He was a Christmas gift for my daughter 14 years ago, but he quickly became my constant companion, much to my daughters disappointment. But due to his age, he's now deaf as a stump. And it's hard to communicate with a spoiled rotten dog when he can't hear you. I am a firm believer that dogs understand what you say to them, mine always do. I have lovely conversations with them.

I now point to the door and mouth "out?", when I think he needs to do his business. I take a can of dog food out of the pantry and show it to him, when I think he wants to eat, if he wags his tail it means yes!

But lately, he's taken to barking until I pay attention to him. Not just one small bark, but continous loud (remember he can't hear) barking until I figure out what he needs. I go thru everything I can think of until I figure it out. It's like having a 1 year old again that can't talk and trying to figure out what they want.

But I love him and am willing to do anything it takes to make him happy. The thought of losing him breaks my heart. So I will be his trained monkey for as long as he needs me to be.

Come to think about it, trained monkey is what I do best! I'm everybody's trained monkey, my daughters, my husbands my boss's, my neices and nephews, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

One of these days I've going to have myself a trained monkey!

Yeah right!